Thursday, March 11, 2010

How your girl acts when ... you're amazing in bed

I've talked to thousands of women about their sex lives and I have seen it all - the great, the mediocre, and unfortunately the most common... the unfulfilled and unsatisfied.

But the most surprising thing is that most guys are completely unaware of how they stack up in the bedroom.

So how big of a deal is it anyway?

And how do you know where you stack up?

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Let me tell you something....

it is a HUGE deal!

Women crave sex FAR more than men. If you don't believe me, then you are not giving her good sex. PERIOD.

The difference is that women only want GOOD sex.

As a guy, you can have pretty mediocre sex and still finish. And even if the sex is phenomenal, most of the time you are still only going to finish once.

Women on the other hand, usually don't finish AT ALL from mediocre sex.

And no matter how "close" she tells you she was, or how good she tells you it was, if she's not "getting there", she is disappointed.

And if it happens regularly we actually start to resent it, and even start to resent you for not learning how to do it right.

But from GREAT sex a woman can easily finish 3, 5, or even 10 times. The difference between amazing and just OK sex is not nearly as significant for guys as it is for girls.

And here's something else you should know:

Guys that can give us AMAZING sex are few and far between.

So if YOU are the guy giving a woman amazing sex, it changes EVERYTHING about how she'll feel about you and how she treats you.

In fact, guys who I have coached into bedroom rock stars often describe it as "eye-opening" and even "life-changing."

There are a lot of signs - both in and out of the bedroom - that you are NOT satisfying your woman. Here's just a few signs your girl is not satified...

Signs IN the Bedroom

  • Your girl doesn't always come, and often doesn't finish during intercourse
  • You frequently have to initiate the sex
  • She is reluctant to go down on you, to have sex in certain positions, to try anything adventurous

Signs OUTSIDE of the Bedroom

  • You feel like you have to "earn" sex, by taking her out or buying her things, or by being on your "best" behavior.
  • You think your girl just doesn't like sex as much as you do. She has to be in the right mood and not tired or stressed from work.
  • She nags you about household responsibilities, how you dress, how you act
  • You and your girl aren't having as much sex as you used to, and not as much as you would like to

If these sound like you, you aren't alone.

So...

How Does Your Girl Act When You Are Giving Her Amazing Sex?

Make no mistake about it, once you start giving your girl amazing sex, everything, and I do mean everything about the relationship changes.

Inside the Bedroom

  • She wants to have sex more often than you do
  • She is eager to please you, enthusiastic to go down on you and try anything you suggest
  • She regularly comes from intercourse and finishes multiple times

Outside the Bedroom

  • All nagging will end almost immediately
  • She buys you gifts, pays for dinners, is eager to please
  • She is eager to do you favors

Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with buying that special lady a present now and then, and you certainly should =) but it shouldn't be as a way to earn something from her.

One guy came to me for coaching when he was really struggling. He was dating a girl he really liked but he was hanging on desperately. He knew she was losing interest quickly, thought she might be cheating on him, and knew it was only a matter of time until she left him for someone else.

He was doing all the of the things that so many guys do when they are hanging on for dear life... buying her expensive dinners, gifts, anything that he thought would win her back and get her attracted again.

But these well intentioned things were only sealing his fate.

He was seeming more and more needy, and confirming that sex was something he had to earn from her. Of course once you have this imbalance no relationship can survive.

The imbalance was extending outside of the bedroom - soon she was making all of the decisions, what do to, where to go, who he hangs out with, what he wears... He was losing all control.

Luckily he came to me when he did and with the principles of the P.A.V.E. system and the techniques and attitudes we teach at 2 Girls Teach Sex he was able to turn it all around.

Boy did things change! Soon she was the one begging him for sex - she couldn't get enough! She would always be kissing him and sitting on his lap. And just a couple of weeks later she asked him to move in with her.

Another guy came to me because he was getting blown off by a girl he thought he was seeing. In fact, he was out at dinner with her one night, and she had arranged for a guy (her real date) to meet her at the same restaurant after their dinner was over!

He knew he was about to end up in the "friend zone" and thankfully got help before it was too late (Great sex starts way before you get to the bedroom!)

With a little coaching he was able to get his relationship back on track, and after they had sex things really started to change. Just a few weeks later she paid for a beach house for the weekend so she could have him all to herself. Needless to say it was a wild weekend! =)

I heard from him again recently and he said this same girl had just recently told him she wanted to bring another girl home to have a threesome with him.

Remember these two things:

1) Women crave GOOD sex more than men crave sex

2) If you are giving your woman amazing sex, she will do everything she can to please and keep you - both in and out of the bedroom

So with this in mind, why aren't more guys great in bed?

Well, up until now, there wasn't really a place for them to learn what to do.

But fortunately there is now. In fact, if you decide TODAY that you want to become a sexual master, you can become one in a matter of days by simply watching the 2 Girls Teach Sex videos.

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I really hope you enjoy them... but most of all, I hope you enjoy the way your girl treats you when you are doing her right =)

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Dustin's review about 2GTS

"The 2 Girls Teach Sex package is terrific. It has a large range of sex tips and positions for everyone from beginners to advanced lovers. My partners and I have also really loved the way that the girls describes suggested positions as well as transitions between them to make sexual encounters that include experimentation inspired by this book flow well and feel natural. I would recommend this package to anybody interested in learning more about sex, especially in terms of spicing up their erotic life with new takes on old positions as well as some challenging and rewarding new additions (and also to learn how to give your girl big orgasms). Excellent sex package, a perfect addition to any sexual person's library. A+"
M.Dustin - Washington, MD

Do you make these 10 mistakes that drive women away?


Even the best lovers are often guilty of mistakes in the bedroom... often WITHOUT ever knowing it.

It's just a fact of life.

But that doesn't mean that YOU have to! In this revealing report you'll discover the most common mistakes men make in bed... and... what to do INSTEAD to drive your woman WILD with pleasure. Avoid these 10 mistakes and you'll have better sex the very NEXT time you make love... guaranteed...
Mistake #1) Thinking she is having orgasms when she isn't

You may think that your lover is having multiple orgasms (or even AN orgasm) when she is not. She may make a bunch of noises, get really wet, and even TELL YOU she is cumming. But is she really?

Grab a Cosmopolitan sometime and look at how many articles and comments on faking orgasms. I'm not saying that YOUR GIRL is faking orgasms EVERY TIME but... chances are there have been a few episodes of love making where she was CRAVING something other than what you were doing.

When this happens women just want it to be over and encourage you to cum. It doesn't mean you are awful in bed; just that being a mindblowing lover EVERY TIME takes some specialized knowledge.

If you are giving your girl orgasms (and absolutely 100% sure of it) then congratulations! You're one of the few guys who is ACTUALLY pleasing a woman REALLY WELL. But if you're not, it is crucial that you learn how...

Mistake #2) Not giving her a variety of sexual experiences

A lot of guys who are new to sex - or are used to having sex with the same woman - tend to forget that women want different KINDS of sexual EXPERIENCES.

You might think that changing positions a few times and varying the speed of your thrusting is a different type of sex. But it is not.

Women thrive on emotions. Sometimes they want to be taken, sometimes they want it hard, and sometimes they want to make love.

If you are NOT talking during sex and creating a strong emotional experience for her she CAN'T be totally fulfilled. Women want strong emotional experiences in bed.

Let's look at an example.

Women love bad boys because of the emotions that a bad boy inspires in them. It is why when women cheat it is often with a "bad boy." However, you don't need to be bad boy to create bad boy emotions within her in the bedroom. Just be a bad boy yourself by spanking her, talking dirty, and giving it to her good!

Women also love very suave, romantic types. Think of the cheesy paperback romance novels or current tv shows (Nip Tuck) they read with that long-haired douchebag on a horse (aka Fabio) on the cover.

Now, I'm not saying you should grow long hair, huge man boobs, and start riding a horse... but what you can do is mix up your lovemaking with some romantic sessions in which you are telling your girl how beautiful she is to you and how much you love her.

Get it?

The skinny is this:

You NEED to give your lover a variety of sexual experiences... and you can give them all to her YOURSELF... but you have to mix it up!

Mistake #3) Forgetting to be a MAN

Ask any 100 women off of the street and 99 of them will tell you that they want a man that TAKES CONTROL.

That said, she wants YOU to call the shots!

Yes you read that right. Your girl DOES want you to take control in the bedroom, to flip her around and do her doggystyle without asking, and to do what YOU want!

Women are programmed to respond to strong, authoritative, confident men. It signifies that you are a protector, a leader, and a suitable mate.

Sure, it's ok to ask her if she is enjoying something... but this is mostly reserved to specific technique when you are "going down". Save the talk about actual positions she liked for AFTER you are done.

Now don't get me wrong - you are not making her a slave here but rather leading with authority and masculine strength. Once you start doing this you will be able to do many things with her in the bedroom that she earlier would not do. Many guys often think she is just uptight and her not being sexual if she doesn't want to do something... when in reality she just needs you to be a man and guide her with your strength. You'll be amazed at just how powerfully she responds!

Mistake #4) Thinking sex isn't that important to her

If you want to know how much women LOVE sex... just think about how loudly they scream in the bedroom when they are getting it good! You won't ever hear a guy screaming like that!

You might THINK that your sex drive is much higher than your girls because YOU are usually the one initiating sex with her. But...

As hard as it is to swallow, recognize that if your girl doesn't want to have sex it is NOT because she doesn't want to. Unfortunately, it's probably because you just aren't getting her off.

Fortunately this is an easy fix, and in a moment we'll talk about how to do it...

Mistake #5) Being silent/emotionless in bed

You may think that it is "cheesy" or "creepy" to talk romantically or dirty in bed. (you may think its weird to talk at all in bed) However, women HATE silent, mechanical sex. Why?

Let's hit this again my friend: Women THRIVE one emotion.

Dirty talk or romantic talk are EXCELLENT at giving your girl STRONG EMOTIONS in bed.

And strong emotions = STRONG ORGASMS.

Never think that it is solely your physical parts or motions you are making that get your girl off. The most POWERFUL FEMALE ORGASMS are triggered by her mind, not by her physical body. Unlock her mind through dirty talk, romantic talk, and emotional talk WHILE having sex and your girl will experience the strongest orgasms of her life.

Mistake #6) Trading dinners/flowers/etc to get sex from her

Many men mistakenly think that women aren't interested in sex (we already discussed how this is incorrect thinking) and that they have to "trade something" with their girl for sex. This is why you see so many guys trying to have sex with their girl by first taking her out to a nice dinner or buying her gifts. While doing nice things for your girl is awesome, it should NEVER be with the intention of GETTING SEX. When you have to trade something to get sex from your girl realize that this is PROOF that you are not good enough in bed. It is proof that she does not like sex with you since in order to DO IT you have to give her something in exchange.

When you are sexually satisfying your girl you will not have to trade ANYTHING for sex but your girl will often sponateously text you sexy messages, buy YOU a small gift, or begin initiating sex constantly. Just wait and see!

Mistake #7) Not giving her enough "foreplay"

If you still think of "foreplay" as the activity before sex you need a quick mindset adjustment to change how much time you spend on foreplay.

Here's a hint: Women consider foreplay as PART of the sex. NOT as a separate thing!

Here's why:

While a man is not capable of having a foreplay orgasm AND another orgasm right away when he penetrates his girl, WOMEN CAN!

Imagine if you could have orgasms during foreplay AND never lose your erection even the slightest and keep having orgasms as you penetrated your girl. You'd want to spend A LOT of time in foreplay too, right?

Well your girl CAN have foreplay orgasms AND penetration orgasms so she DOES want to spend a lot of time in foreplay. As she should!

As a rule of thumb, spend at least the same amount of time on foreplay as penetration and you can always spend EVEN MORE time in foreplay. You can never get her too turned on and it will only make the penetration better when you are finally inside of her.

Mistake #8) Not lasting long enough

This mistake is well known and very simple, but no list of mistakes in the bedroom would be complete without it.

But while all guys know they need to last long... they don't necessarily know HOW LONG that is!

Well, after talking to hundreds of women about the subject, I've discovered that if you can last at least 10 minutes, most women will be plenty happy with that.

Sure, they might be even happier if you are up for a "round 2" after a break in the action... but if you can last for 10 minutes in the first round, then trust me, you are fine!

Mistake #9) Mistaking her moody-ness for NORMAL behavior

It's no secret that women are a LOT moodier than us men.

But if you're in a relationship with a woman and she seems to keep getting more and more moody over time... this is often because she isn't getting what she needs in the bedroom.

FACT.

As we talked about before... while women aren't usually as sexually aggressive as men, they do love and NEED sex just as much!

But here's the thing... if you're not giving her orgasms... then sex does her no good!

Can you imagine jerking off but you could NEVER orgasm? You'd begin to enjoy it less and less each time. Eventually you'd get so frustrated by the inabiliity to "finish" that it was just easier to avoid it COMPLETELY!

Sooo...

If you can't give her orgasms why WOULD she want to have sex with you?

The answer:

She won't.

If your girl is not wanting to have sex with you as much as you want then this is EXACTLY what has happened for her.

In the beggining, she may have tolerated sex because she was really into you. Now that you have been together for a long time and sex isn't satisfying for her it is more fulfilling to get herself off when you're not around. This leads to only having sex with you on special occasions... or when she feels obligated (like if a guy bought her a fancy dinner or some sort of gift.)

If you recognize any of these signs it's time to step up your sex game NOW before the sex drought gets even worse.

And when you do, you'll discover that when you are completely rocking her world in bed, not only is she in a better mood on a day-to-day basis... but SHE'LL start initiating sex with YOU!

A close friend of mine who is some what of a love-making expert himself told me something that I didnt' believe at the time... but I now KNOW to be 100% true:

IF YOU ARE GIVING HER THE BEST OF HER LIFE SHE WON'T CARE IF YOU ARE HOMELESS LIVING IN A CARDBOARD BOX... AS LONG AS YOU CAN HAVE SEX IN IT!

When I heard this I thought he was totally full of it... but as my own lovemaking skills improved and then I heard about the success other guys were having, I realized this is completely true. Women are biologically "made" to be child bearers and select the highest value man to have a child with. Don't you think that the ability to give amazing sex is one of the highest values a man can have? Especially since so few men actually are REALLY GOOD.

If your girlfriend or wife is often starting arguments, not wanting sex, or acting "distant" in some way it is time to stop blaming her. Re-examine your sexual ability because the real culprit is inadequate sexual pleasure.

Mistake #10) Not getting help

Top performers in any aspect of life realize that MASTERY is a journey not a destination. Top athletes don't all-of-a-sudden stop practicing. Millionaire business men don't suddenly neglect their businesses and expect it to keep shuttling cash into their pockets. And guess what... sex is no different.

To be an amazing lover you can't ever be blinded by sexual arrogance. Never think that you know EVERYTHING. You may know A LOT but there are ALWAYS new tricks or tips to get you to the next level.

If you're serious about getting this part of your life together... and joining the 1% of all men who can REALLY rock a woman's world in the bedroom... I'd like to invite you to check out the new groundbreaking DVD series, 2 Girls Teach Sex.

In it, you'll discover DOZENS of secrets on how to get your girl turned on BEFORE you have sex, foreplay tricks that make her BEG to have you inside of her, the little-known positions that GUARANTEE orgasms, how to get your girl to start initiating sex with you, how to give her multiple orgasms, squirting orgasms... and much, much more!

I was very excited when Shawna asked me to be a part of this program... and as a man I can tell you that this stuff WORKS.

Best of all, you can try it RISK-FREE. Get it out there, watch the videos, and try out the techniques. If your girl isn't SCREAMING with pleasure and begging you to be inside of her all the time, simply pack them up and return them for a full refund, no questions asked.

Of course, we'd be "crazy" to make an offer like that if we were at all worried about that happening. In fact, I'll bet that once you get these DVDs out there and see how well these techniques work, we wouldn't be able to pry them out of your hands with a crowbar!

I'm this confident because I USE the techniques and I've seen the results. And now, it's your turn.

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